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Resource Library

This is your place to begin.

Whether you’re court-ordered, overwhelmed, or simply searching for the right next step—start here. Inside this growing library, you’ll find my most trusted answers, heartfelt insights, and hand-picked tools to help you make sense of what’s next.

You may not be ready to reach out yet. That’s okay. Take what you need. And when you’re ready, submit an inquiry and we’ll go from there—together.

ARTICLES & REFLECTIONS

Written insights, expert advice, and supportive truths I wish every parent knew

Ayana Burnett 8/13/25 Ayana Burnett 8/13/25

Parenting After Separation: Embracing a New Normal That Fits

We hear all the time that co-parenting is the ideal — that we should be co-parenting no matter what, working in sync to raise happy, healthy kids. But reality often doesn’t look that way.

Co-Parenting: Not Always the Norm

📝 A Letter to the Parent Who’s Barely Holding On

Let’s be honest. No one grows up dreaming of going to court for custody of their children. Yet here you are…

Why Hearing Your Name From an Ex Can Wreck You….

I came across this reel the other day that said: “Being called by your own name by an ex feels like a divorce all over again.”

Whew. That hit.

PODCAST EPISODES

Sometimes, you need to hear the message.

Find peace in the wait.

When a child pulls away, the silence can be louder than any argument. For many parents, the waiting — for answers, for healing, for court — feels unbearable. In this episode, we explore how to survive that stillness… and begin to soothe the ache.

When distance hurts.

For every parent aching from the distance between them and their child — this one's for you. You're not alone in this hurt, and yes… I got you. Press play.

When 50/50 isn’t so simple.

50/50 sounds fair on paper — but what does it really take to make joint custody work, especially when the tension runs high? In this episode, we get real about the emotional, practical, and relational truths behind shared parenting after divorce.

When your child hurts.

When your child is facing emotional pain — especially during something as tender as Parent Reunification — knowing how to support them can feel overwhelming. This episode offers guidance for walking with them gently through the hurt, without losing yourself in the process.

It’s over.

Now what about the kids?

The relationship has ended — or maybe it’s ending now. Either way, your heart is heavy, and the biggest question remains: What about the kids? This episode holds space for that crossroads moment, where love has shifted, but parenting still continues.